Clearing Old Beliefs and Creating New Ones to Make You an Attraction Magnet

Here’s the latest “Love Bites”  with Cheri Valentine that aired today on The Sisters of Sizzle Talk Radio. And if you want to hear the segment click here and forward to the last 10 minutes of the show.

Make a list of all the beliefs you have about dating, romance, love, and marriage

Some may be obvious to you, others you may need to dig a little deeper.

Some common beliefs that are more obvious and come up over and over again in working with clients are:

• ·There are no good men (or women)
• All the good ones are taken
• I’ll never find someone with everything I want
• I can’t trust that I won’t be hurt again
• I’ll give up my independence
• No one will ever accept all my animals
• My children get in the way of dating or finding love
• I’ll never be happy with my husband
• My partner never hears what I say
• No one ever listened to me before, who will now?

Some that are not so obvious or close to the surface:

• I don’t deserve to be happy
• I can’t have what I want
• I am not lovable

Once you’ve made your list, cross one at a time out and under it, write a new belief to embrace.

Examples:

• There are no good men (or women)
• There are plenty of good men (or women) and I know plenty of them. I am only looking for one special one for me and I believe he (or she) will find me.
• I’ll give up my independence
• A perfect relationship for me is one in which we are both independent yet we are also interdependent.  I can keep my independence and gain a loving partner as well.

Then have a Releasing Ceremony.

Re-write each negative belief on strips of paper or on one sheet of paper.

Light some candles and set the intention (this is important) that you are ready to let go of these old beliefs and are releasing them back to where they belong (which is not with you.) You are finished with them.

Then burn them, and as they burn, breathe slowly and deeply and feel them dissipating.

Then…

Write your new beliefs on a sheet of paper AND also create a list of things to celebrate about you – all the things about you that make you special and that you love about you-

Declare that I am bee-ing a person who embraces and believes _______

And say them out loud, feeling the joy in this.

Then DECLARE that YOU ARE READY TO LET LOVE IN!

Of course, some energy healing and release work may be needed to really let go.  So often our beliefs are so deeply rooted, and are stuck energies in our bodies and emotions.  Although we may think it logically or want to believe it, energy work can release and recharge you often in a session.  So if you are not feeling the shift, seek some guidance or help to experience the shift that you are seeking.

Next week on “Love Bites” we’ll have fun with attractive actions that are symbolic gestures to let the universe and your soul mate know you are ready.

Cheri Valentine

Collaborative Enchantress of Joyful Hearts

Relationship Expert on Relating, Dating, & Mating

Creator of 90 Days 2 Love™ Attraction Collaborative

www.CheriValentine.com